Creating meaningful and lasting connections, especially with a life partner, is crucial for a fulfilling life. Such relationships provide emotional support, companionship, and a sense of belonging. They help navigate life’s challenges and celebrate its joys, contributing to mental and emotional well-being. A deep connection with a life partner fosters growth, mutual respect, and shared dreams, creating a stable foundation for a happy and balanced life.
Cohen Gray Connections is a premier matchmaking service dedicated to creating meaningful and lasting connections for discerning individuals. Founded by Hayley Hurst, the company specializes in providing elite matchmaking services that go beyond traditional dating methods. By focusing on compatibility, shared values, and personal preferences, Cohen Gray Connections ensures that each match is carefully curated to meet the unique needs of its clients. Their personalized approach and commitment to excellence have made them a trusted name in the world of high-end matchmaking.
From Sales to Souls
Hayley Hurst is the dynamic founder of Cohen Gray Connections, a premier matchmaking service. She has seamlessly transitioned from her sales career to the world of elite matchmaking. Her journey is marked by a commitment to excellence, empathy, and a deep understanding of what it takes to build lasting relationships. Hayley’s expertise and dedication have been crucial to her growth in the matchmaking industry and to guiding clients toward fulfilling and compatible partnerships.
Hayley has always loved sales, customer service, and client interaction. Talking with clients has always been enjoyable for her. When she became a mom, she needed to pivot and work remotely, which led her to discover the matchmaking industry. From that point on, she fell in love with it and knew she would never leave this industry.
“I couldn’t believe I had found a job that allowed me to work from anywhere, while also enjoying the clientele that I adore, and helping to improve someone’s life by finding them a partner. I was hooked from that moment on,” says Hayley.
As the Founder, Hayley brings over a decade of high-end retail management experience, excelling in customer service and styling advice. Her knack for connecting people led her to matchmaking, starting with her first job of helping clients enhance their online profiles.
With years in the matchmaking industry and a certification from the prestigious Global Love Institute, formerly The Matchmaking Institute, Hayley now excels in traditional matchmaking, leading her team with a focus on exceptional service and detail. Motivated by her late father’s support, she founded Cohen Gray Connections, embodying his entrepreneurial spirit. The name “Cohen Gray” is a tribute to the middle names of Hayley’s beloved children, symbolizing the best aspects that arise from true love.
Finding the Perfect One
Cohen Gray Connections excels at providing confidential and reliable matchmaking services for individuals.
Its clients, often leading bustling lives, turn to Hayley and her team for expert guidance and personalized matchmaking tailored to their unique needs. They pride themselves on their commitment to discretion, white-glove service, and meticulous attention to detail, ensuring a smooth and fulfilling path to finding love.
Cohen Gray Connections doesn’t just facilitate introductions—it creates meaningful, lasting relationships through an elite and discreet process. While it serves clients from diverse backgrounds, it has particular expertise in matching individuals seeking Jewish partners.
What sets Cohen Gray Connections apart is its strong emphasis on client service and its ‘white glove approach’. Hayley is committed to working only with clients whom she sincerely believes she can help achieve some form of success, as success varies for each individual. She goes above and beyond for every client she takes on, and often develops genuine friendships with them. This personal connection makes the search process easier because Hayley deeply understands what they are looking for.
More than Matchmaking
The vision and mission of Cohen Gray Connections have always centered around going the extra mile for the clients. It serves clients across the USA and Canada, helping them navigate the complex landscape of modern romance. Additionally, prospective clients can join its extensive and complimentary database, giving them access to its exclusive community of singles.
Hayley’s primary concern is ensuring that clients feel valued, heard, and understood. Given their significant investment in the search for love, she wants them to feel that their hard-earned money is well spent. The biggest challenge she faced initially was taking a leap of faith and believing in herself to pursue this venture independently. Having worked in the industry for a few years before branching out on her own, she encountered both supporters and skeptics. However, she knew deep down that this was her calling and that she was meant to be in this industry.
“I won’t deny that thoughts of failure occasionally surface, but I strive to quickly dismiss them and trust that I am exactly where I need to be,” she says.
As Hayley looks to the future, client satisfaction will remain her top priority. She is committed to working with only the number of clients to whom she can genuinely dedicate the attention they deserve. She will never lose sight of the importance of client satisfaction. She maintains frequent contact with her clients to ensure they are aware of the efforts being made, providing constant updates so they are always informed about the process.
Relying on her Instincts
Hayley’s primary strategy for building strong relationships with her clients begins with trusting her instincts during the introductory call. As a matchmaker, being fully invested in her client’s success is crucial. During the intro call, she makes it a priority to get to know the client deeply and understand what they are seeking in a match. If her instincts indicate that she can genuinely help this person, she commits to doing whatever it takes to achieve a successful outcome.
“This dedication is why I don’t accept clients solely for financial gain; I genuinely strive for a successful and fulfilling experience for each client. Once I am committed and the process begins, that’s when the friendship develops and the strong relationship is truly established,” explains Hayley.
Relations in Time of Technology
Technology is certainly not Hayley’s strong suit, but she recognizes its importance, particularly with the rise of AI tools, and online dating apps in the industry. To address this, she seeks support and hires the right experts. She is constantly reaching out to others for guidance and insight into the latest updates and technologies to ensure she remains informed and her work stays relevant.
Hayley points out that while technology can enhance the processes, clients still crave the personal touch and connection that a matchmaker provides. “Clients are inviting us into the most personal aspects of their lives, and it’s crucial to have someone who is genuinely invested in their journey to find love. Developing a personal relationship with clients paves the way for a successful and meaningful matchmaking experience,” she emphasizes.
Hayley has worked with dating apps and sites for a few years and recognizes their value, especially if one is marketing oneself effectively and understands how their algorithms work. For those on a tight budget, online platforms can be a great option. However, what sets a traditional matchmaker apart is the personal touch and comprehensive vetting process they offer. In-person matchmaking allows for thorough screening, providing a layer of assurance that online platforms may lack—people can easily present an idealized version of themselves online. Another wonderful aspect of the matchmaking industry is its collaborative spirit. Matchmakers often work together, sharing databases and resources to achieve the common goal of finding love for their clients. This cooperative approach enriches the process and increases the chances of success.
The Trends in the Industry
Hayley anticipates a growing trend in clients seeking the traditional approach of human connection offered by matchmakers. As AI and online dating platforms become increasingly prevalent, she believes clients are yearning for a more human-centred approach. While she recognizes and appreciates the immense benefits AI offers across various industries, when it comes to matters of the heart, the personal touch is indispensable. That’s why, at Cohen Gray Connections, nurturing strong relationships with their clients is, and always will be, the cornerstone of their business.
“We believe that connecting on a personal level is crucial to truly understanding and fulfilling our clients’ desires for love and companionship,” says Hayley.
A Memorable Match
One of Hayley’s most memorable matches happened long before she officially became a matchmaker. It was during the Jewish holidays at a family friend’s house when she met an incredibly special and lovely woman. As they talked, Hayley couldn’t help but think about how perfect she would be for one of her closest male friends at the time.
Hayley called her friend immediately and told him, ‘You have to meet this woman; there’s just something about her that’s perfect for you.’ To her delight, they met that very night and ended up spending the whole evening talking.
Two years later, they were married. This story is particularly close to Hayley’s heart because it happened before she even knew matchmaking existed and would become her career.
“It was a serendipitous moment that hinted at the path I was meant to follow. And yes, they are still happily married today, which is a wonderful reminder of meant to be for me,” she says.
For the Young looking for Partners
Hayley often tells young clients who are beginning their search for love to picture themselves in 20 years.
“Focus on the qualities and values that will still matter to you in the long run. It’s easy to get caught up in aspects that may fade over time. Although physical attraction plays an important role in relationships, it’s essential to recognize that appearances can change. What’s more important is ensuring you can still laugh, talk, and connect with your partner on a deeper level. Choose someone you can grow and evolve with, as one common issue that leads to divorce is when people don’t grow together. If you envision becoming a parent, select someone whose character you admire and would be proud to have your children call mom or dad. Ultimately, a person’s true emotional connection with you is the most crucial element in a lasting relationship,” she advises.
Plans Ahead
Hayley’s vision for the future of Cohen Gray Connections is to continue its growth while maintaining the boutique feel that defines the company. She wants to always remember the beginnings and the dedication they’ve put into achieving client success.
“As we expand, my top priority will be ensuring that both our clients and staff feel valued and appreciated. I am genuinely excited about what the future holds and can’t wait to see where we will be in the next five years. To achieve this vision, I am focusing on the present, ensuring that we give 100% every day. I want our growth to happen gradually and organically,” she concludes.
Quote: ‘If grass can grow through cement, love can find you at every time in your life.’ – Cher
Quote: “Don’t compare yourself with other people; compare yourself with who you were yesterday.” – Jordan Peterson.
Quote: “When we cultivate a genuine connection with you as your matchmaker, we naturally come to understand your values, goals, and aspirations. This understanding empowers us to expertly connect you with a truly compatible partner.”
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